It starts with a 30 day digital detox in which the objective is to reset your baseline of expectations of relationships with the apps services and technologies that you use. These 30 days do not have to be ones lived in a cave. Instead, you should only keep those things that are absolutely vital. Horton to keep in mind the role of the detox is not to provide you a temporarily relief from the overwhelming onslaught of technology and notifications on your attention and time, but to reset expectations, and set you up for a permanent change to be made after this period.
After this 30 day period, your mind it should be free and clear to then begin re-introducing technology in an intentional way. For each piece of tech, ask which of my core values is this technology serving and how? If it does not serve your core value, and instead provide some small amount of value, consider doing away with it all together. If it remains, come up with a list of standard operating procedures. “I will use Reddit only when...”. Think of replacement habits.